In the age of social media , moms often use these sites and apps to help them be better parents. The tips, advice, and hacks can make parenting a bit easier. But if you are the person posting, you have to beware . The second you click post, the entire world can consume your content, and they will be more than happy to give you their opinions. A TikTok mom learned this lesson the hard way and ended up deleting her controversial video . But, as we all know by now, the internet is forever, and it’s still out there.
The woman, who posts on TikTok as @mak_and_momlife , shares a baby girl with her wife. In a video re-uploaded to TikTok by @clipsvideos033 , the original poster starts the video with a wild question, “Does anyone else, like, not talk to their kid or their baby?”
The TikToker said she and her wife typically care for their 11-month-old baby together, but she recently spent the day with the baby alone and noticed something.
“Today, it was just me and her all day, and I realized sitting at dinner that it was just quiet and we weren’t even talking, which she can’t talk about, but I don’t talk to her,” she said.
“Is that weird?” she asked. “Should I be saying things so she can learn how to talk? I make noises, I do funny faces, I dance, but I don’t converse.”
@clipsvideos033 Woman doesn’t talk to 11 month old baby, what do y’all think? #fyp #viral #11monthsold #mom #lesbiansoftiktok ♬ original sound – clips&videos
“So you’re neglecting your child ?” someone questioned. “Is that what you’re publicly putting out there ????? Do better.”
Another person agreed: “So let me get this straight… you don’t say good morning to her ? Or ask her how she’s doing ? Or ask her if she had a good nap ? But you can make funny noises ?! Girl go read a book on how to be a parent please.”
Others just flat-out couldn’t understand.
“I talk to inanimate objects what do you mean you don’t talk to your baby,” a flabbergasted viewer wrote.
“I really am on here to connect,” she said. “Motherhood is tough, but very rewarding.”
